AEMOMS — working moms working together

AEMOMS — working moms working together

In recognition of International Women’s Day on March 8 and this year’s theme, #BeBoldForChange, we are featuring stories from our leaders and employees throughout the month of March, describing their own bold moments in relation to workplace equality and honoring diversity and inclusion.

After becoming a mother, I kept pushing out the date I planned to return to work, knowing that I wanted to return, but wasn’t quite ready. My boss was very understanding — he had previously lost employees who came back too quickly and wanted to make sure the timing was good for both of us. I was able to work from home occasionally, and when we finally placed my daughter into a daycare down the street from my office, I felt ready to return.

Work was great. I was again part of a team, going to meetings and working on influential projects. However, the necessary “mom” things, such as taking pumping breaks, became the low point of my days. I reached out to other working moms and found their experiences were similar, and we agreed we needed better facilities for nursing mothers.

My “bold moment” was when I spoke to my local office management to suggest improvements for our lactation room while simultaneously researching standards and guidelines to help inform those improvements. There wasn’t a lot available at the time, so after we achieved our goal of better facilities in our own office, I took my cause further to help ensure there was a model all AECOM offices could follow. I wanted to see that moms who were very happy and willing to work had a place that felt comfortable and respectful of both our roles, as professionals and as mothers.

0178_690x355Kristi and her daughter, Keira, in September 2015.

I made connections with the Diversity and Inclusion (D+I) group at AECOM, which helped lead the effort to add lactation room guidelines into our overall Real Estate plan. The guidelines document I developed was reviewed by several different company functions — including Real Estate, Legal, Benefits, Human Resources, D+I, and others — and I was thrilled when the announcement came last spring that the guidelines were incorporated into the new Employee Handbook! The new guidelines include room design standards, from room privacy and location, to counter spaces and storage areas.

Meanwhile, a few of the mothers in my office started emailing back and forth on a regular basis. We decided to start a group on Chatter (an internal social network for AECOM employees) to make it easier to share ideas on how to navigate working motherhood, and “AEMOMS” was formed!

The group started out local in Arlington, Virginia, and we slowly added moms from other offices until we grew so big we decided to make it an open group. We now have close to 400 mothers in our group from all across the world! We hold monthly support calls where moms can talk through work-life challenges as well as keep each other informed of AECOM benefits that are especially helpful for mothers, including maternity leave, and flexible work arrangements. I personally take advantage of the flexibility, working a part-time schedule so I can still have one week day to spend with my daughter.

I love that AEMOMS provides support and encouragement for women who want to stay in the workforce. I also enjoy helping people; the positive feedback and many “thank yous” I have received from my fellow moms are what drive me to continue to #BeBoldForChange.

Kristi Headshot BW_89x100Kristi Guilfoyle is a project manager for AECOM’s Transportation business line and leads AEMOMS, an internal support group for working moms at AECOM. Kristi’s project experience includes iconic Washington, D.C., locations such as the Pentagon, the Smithsonian Museum of Natural History and the United States Capitol. Since transferring to the Raleigh office, Kristi is now working on local municipality projects such as neighborhood street resurfacing and greenway trails. Kristi spends her free time with her husband (Mike), three-year old daughter (Keira) and hound dog (Waldo). She enjoys photography, cooking, gardening, blogging and spending as much time outdoors as possible.
Linked In: Kristi Guilfoyle


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  1. I have an incredible daughter! I am so proud of you to take such great care of your child, yourself and broadening to fellow moms.

    It is critical for moms to feel good about balancing work and family and you cared enough to share your experience benefitting so many.
    Love and admiration, mom

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